tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post3273969290863740339..comments2023-08-13T08:42:42.590-07:00Comments on Home of Kindros: Choices and EffectsKindroshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08320478076212368779noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-84162595724001081822011-03-08T00:12:28.069-08:002011-03-08T00:12:28.069-08:00I don't like what-if questions ~ unless it'...I don't like what-if questions ~ unless it's to help my story! For my life, though, I try to live it without regret. When I was 30 I took ballet lessons because I had always wanted to, but never could. I wanted to know what it would feel like to wear a flowy little ballet skirt and move my body in such graceful arcs.<br /><br />Yeah, well. It was fun while it lasted! At least I can say I did it. And it was a wonderful experience. That's how I came to be a writer. It was one of things that "had always wanted to do", and so ... I did it.<br /><br />Now I try to live life with no regrets, and try to teach my children the same. We're all dreamers ~ but it is possible to be a dreamer AND a doer!ali crosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13023009704454279645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-90228358512764763442011-03-04T01:51:11.282-08:002011-03-04T01:51:11.282-08:00Exactly! It's easy to get stuck in a routine.....Exactly! It's easy to get stuck in a routine... sometimes you really have to give yourself a kick in the butt. <br />Also: The Butterfly Effect.tracirzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01212743365779079490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-2846935910240926292011-03-03T10:53:53.151-08:002011-03-03T10:53:53.151-08:00This is all I think about when I'm under the i...This is all I think about when I'm under the influence.Junghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13204302112458105414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-51547557384817041732011-03-03T09:14:12.843-08:002011-03-03T09:14:12.843-08:00In the multiverse all those possibilites exist.......In the multiverse all those possibilites exist.... we just need to find a way to cross the boundarymetaphysicalfarmshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07652113913262549141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-9553197283546946542011-03-03T05:43:10.233-08:002011-03-03T05:43:10.233-08:00i think the "what if" is the most danger...i think the "what if" is the most dangerous thing to a man, because it makes you doubt yourself, it has crossed my mind(i wont lie) but i always end up recalling what i did and why did i choose that answer, and if i could change it probably wouldnt anywayIgneel21https://www.blogger.com/profile/08933556198189963295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-26831392890255724122011-03-03T04:19:04.371-08:002011-03-03T04:19:04.371-08:00I actually try not to think too much about choices...I actually try not to think too much about choices I make for fear of regretting them. I try to take life day by day and accept all outcomes of all choices. But very interesting post.RetroSpiderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12310734132252898559noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-72451084461157895322011-03-03T04:10:56.823-08:002011-03-03T04:10:56.823-08:00Ah the curious mind.
Cool quote. Is she the Olym...Ah the curious mind. <br /><br />Cool quote. Is she the Olympic Gold medal winner back in the 80-90's?.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05546721800320695724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-67957630777653819472011-03-03T03:03:07.758-08:002011-03-03T03:03:07.758-08:00True true! Hay, in middle school I played (or trie...True true! Hay, in middle school I played (or tried to play) the clarinet. Me & my girlfriends decided to join band. We ended up only staying for the first year & not signing up again! It was horrible. lol I'm just not very musical... except when I pretend to be lol.<br /><br /> I do wonder what would've happened a lot when I think about how my life changed when I got sick, but thank God for it being over & me being able to start my life now!Admin1https://www.blogger.com/profile/11790061609334951557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-8347590167385251092011-03-03T03:01:14.734-08:002011-03-03T03:01:14.734-08:00what if the recession never happened? my entire LI...what if the recession never happened? my entire LIFE would have been different.<br />this post made me think of loads of other What If questions and how my life would be if things were ever so slightly different, such as: what if i wasn't sick and hadn't lost my voice today? there is SO much i wanted to say today but i couldn't. i think i could have left a completely different impression on people if i wasn't sick today.Furree Katthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00115232440467001511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-10090703121138732112011-03-03T02:17:49.640-08:002011-03-03T02:17:49.640-08:00What an insightful post, it started me thinking ab...What an insightful post, it started me thinking about small choices I've made and how they changed the big picture.<br />I think it's human nature to ask ourselves "what if".Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09493833550898414472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-75432394814727688592011-03-03T00:23:09.027-08:002011-03-03T00:23:09.027-08:00As years go by, it saddens me this feeling I have ...As years go by, it saddens me this feeling I have where I can see how my window of opportunities and choices is getting smaller. :(Patti D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13565626728261281495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-47064449704319909222011-03-02T19:32:29.410-08:002011-03-02T19:32:29.410-08:00What an awesome post. Good stuff to remember about...What an awesome post. Good stuff to remember about choices and making some too lightly.Colene Murphyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06086195075690893194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-25147944231528879582011-03-02T18:04:45.458-08:002011-03-02T18:04:45.458-08:00What a crazy random happenstance, I play violin. :...What a crazy random happenstance, I play violin. :3 I think you should give it a go now, it's never too late to start.<br />But your post really does make me think.Victoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03633990324394958185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-20035006831961013402011-03-02T15:42:11.782-08:002011-03-02T15:42:11.782-08:00I read something not long ago from an author sayin...I read something not long ago from an author saying that if we pick something we love and choose to devote massive amounts of time to it, in time we'll become really good at it. Natural talent does have a part in it, but also it's where we devote our time every day.Stephanie Farishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10461865229341760836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-16417995626453623092011-03-02T15:34:26.377-08:002011-03-02T15:34:26.377-08:00I wonder about choices, too, sometimes a little to...I wonder about choices, too, sometimes a little too much. If I had done one little thing differently, would by life be a million times better? Or a million times worse?<br /><br />It can be paralyzing. But sometimes, you just have to go for it and remember if you don't like it, you can change later.<br /><br />Beautiful.J E Fritzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03372746219262163566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-65109443387210696422011-03-02T15:03:45.120-08:002011-03-02T15:03:45.120-08:00Thats so true.Thats so true.level85nerdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13801268891431603503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-13058227776287442122011-03-02T13:39:34.590-08:002011-03-02T13:39:34.590-08:00Glad you enjoyed it! More soon!Glad you enjoyed it! More soon!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-54331435116129021832011-03-02T13:09:12.201-08:002011-03-02T13:09:12.201-08:00Great post! Each choice definitely affects our fu...Great post! Each choice definitely affects our future. And sometimes, or even a lot of times, our choices affect those around us. Thanks for posting this.Michelle Merrillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00040685503147648297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-59464006422838611692011-03-02T12:58:21.569-08:002011-03-02T12:58:21.569-08:00Beautiful deep thought process there and very up l...Beautiful deep thought process there and very up lifting. I've come to the conclusion we ask ourselves that question because we have yet to arrive at the place we need to be. Lord, did that make sense? :)<br /><a href="http://fragilemouse.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Jules @ Trying To Get Over The Rainbow</a>Juleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02136045025997662057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-19097503753700921482011-03-02T12:49:13.300-08:002011-03-02T12:49:13.300-08:00I do that so much!!
What if I studied hard for th...I do that so much!!<br /><br />What if I studied hard for the midterm?<br /><br />What if she never had a miscarriage?<br /><br />What if I stayed?<br /><br />What if I was nicer?<br /><br />What if I said "yes"?Eeshiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04369334711205304909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-38723716499552401962011-03-02T12:34:46.026-08:002011-03-02T12:34:46.026-08:00I wouldn't change anything about my past becau...I wouldn't change anything about my past because it got me where I am today, but I believe that even small choices could have completely altered it! I think many people live with the belief that they are stuck or will be. It can make decision making paralyzing. What if I choose to leave this job for the other one and it turns out that I hate it? So what! So you quit the other job and find a new one. We're never stuck. Fear keeps us that way though. It's easy to get comfortable and not step outside that comfort zone. GREAT post!!Jennie Baileyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02088195986628533511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-88726572470058884362011-03-02T10:45:31.264-08:002011-03-02T10:45:31.264-08:00Lovely post. I like to think that even my bad deci...Lovely post. I like to think that even my bad decisions have had a positive effect on my life, if only to put me through hard times so that I come out stronger. We can't know how things would have turned out if we'd chosen differently. Maybe if you'd stuck with violin, you would have ended up hating it anyway. Maybe if my husband and I hadn't chosen to move to LA, we would have ended up somewhere were life was easier, or maybe it would have been harder. The most we can do is try to make the decision that works best at that moment in our lives.Rachel Searleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09413906883952940334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-21971618720971083712011-03-02T09:54:32.686-08:002011-03-02T09:54:32.686-08:00Thoughts too long on what if take us away from wha...Thoughts too long on what if take us away from what could still bemetaphysicalfarmshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07652113913262549141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-30244213734436408762011-03-02T09:50:44.186-08:002011-03-02T09:50:44.186-08:00im happy i picked up an instrument, really useful ...im happy i picked up an instrument, really useful in expression and a good hobbyedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08257653333271259761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7927592924588096315.post-38677263154313601792011-03-02T09:30:06.236-08:002011-03-02T09:30:06.236-08:00Beautiful post. Really made me think.Beautiful post. Really made me think.Kelseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02847967072513793874noreply@blogger.com